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practicing gratitude
4 CBT strategies for practicing gratitude, even when it doesn’t feel like there’s much to be grateful for 1024 576 Dr Ilyse

4 CBT strategies for practicing gratitude, even when it doesn’t feel like there’s much to be grateful for

Last week, I saw the Broadway show Every Brilliant Thing, starring the incomparable Daniel Radcliffe. Radcliffe plays a man whose mother has a longstanding history of depression and suicide attempts.…

how to stop doomscrolling with cbt
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How to stop doomscrolling using CBT

So many of us are anxious, angry, and aggrieved about the news. Which is no surprise: the news is awful, and in our faces all day, every day. It’s becoming…

how to argue effectively
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How to argue effectively: Try using direct “I” statements

Want to know how to argue effectively? You’ve probably heard of the “I” statement. It involves expressing displeasure with someone by making a statement starting with “I,” as in, “I…

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Anxious and catastrophizing? Ask yourself these 3 questions

Do you often find yourself catastrophizing? That is, do you ask yourself “What If?” questions and assume that the worst possible outcome is bound to occur? This was the case…

4 reasons why TV can help you cope with stress (Or, Why I love Leslie Knope) 660 440 Dr Ilyse

4 reasons why TV can help you cope with stress (Or, Why I love Leslie Knope)

In the past several years, I’ve become a big proponent of watching TV—without a phone nearby—as a strategy for coping with stress. You may be rolling your eyes as you’re…

3 important questions for parents with the “Gift Horse Problem” 1024 768 Dr Ilyse

3 important questions for parents with the “Gift Horse Problem”

Recently, a patient explained that her parents were coming to town and had volunteered to babysit so that she and her husband could have a night out in the city.…

anxiety
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5 reasons why you should stop seeking reassurance

“What if this pain in my arm means that I have a serious illness?” “What if I fail at my new job?” “What if I said too much at the…

mindfulness
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4 reasons why mindfulness is great for anxious brains

I was first exposed to mindfulness as a graduate student. On the recommendation of innovators like Marsha Linehan, Jon Kabat-Zinn, and others, mindfulness was increasingly being incorporated into cognitive-behavioral therapy…

5 effective strategies for responding to your emotions and avoiding “drama” 1024 576 Dr Ilyse

5 effective strategies for responding to your emotions and avoiding “drama”

As a clinical psychologist who treats many stressed and anxious moms, I’ve often heard about the Housewives, those staples of Bravo TV that fight and booze and scheme their way…

cognitive-behavioral therapy
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Welcome!

Welcome to my blog! I hope to use this space to share my thoughts on cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), anxiety, women’s health…and the overlap between all three. As an undergraduate at Yale…